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Which Game Are We Playing?

What am I assuming the other person is trying to achieve?

The idea

Predicting someone's actions depends partly on understanding their objectives. A strategy can be well executed yet ineffective because it responds to a goal or success criterion the other person does not share.

Situation

You are preparing a strategy or interpreting someone's behavior without having checked what matters to them.

Useful when

Preparing for a job interviewPlanning a negotiationInterpreting a customer's requestWorking across teams

Watch for

People may have several competing objectives, and their stated goals may be incomplete. Treat your explanation of their motives as a hypothesis to investigate.

Where this came from

Game theory, Multi-agent learning

Example

Before emphasizing technical depth in an interview, clarify whether the interviewer is assessing technical knowledge, collaboration, judgment, or some combination.

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Which Game Are We Playing?Primary post · Oct 16, 2026